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Lesbian couple wins discrimination lawsuit against Hawaii B&B (VIDEO)

Diane Cervelli and Taeko Bufford
Diane Cervelli and Taeko Bufford

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After a lesbian couple was turned away from a bed and breakfast in Hawaii for being gay, they made it a point to get their story heard.

In 2007, Diane Cervelli and Taeko Bufford headed to visit a friend and decided to stay in a romantic Hawaii bed and breakfast, or so were their plans.

The owner of the establishment turned them away when she learned they were lesbians because it was against her religious stance on same-sex relationships.

Being opposed to gay and lesbian relationships led the woman to believe she was correct in turning Cervelli and Bufford away, or discriminating against them based solely on their sexual orientation.

It turns out she was not allowed to discriminate against them based on their sexuality. Yahoo! news explains:

“The bed and breakfast violated the state public accommodations law and is ordered to stop discriminating against same-sex couples, according to the ruling dated April 11. The public accommodations law prohibits establishments that provide lodging to transient guests from discriminating on the basis of sexual orientation, race, color, ancestry, religion, disability and sex —including gender identity or expression.”

The Hawaii Civil Rights Commission reacted: “The court’s decision is based on Hawaii’s strong state civil rights laws which prohibit discrimination,” commission Executive Director William Hoshijo said. “When visitors or residents are subjected to discrimination, they suffer the sting of indignity, humiliation and outrage, but we are all demeaned and our society diminished by unlawful discrimination.”

More and more gay and lesbian couples are taking to the law to make sure their rights are respected, especially when there are laws in place to keep them safe from discrimination. It seems to be that actually enforcing the laws is where there is disconnect in some places.

What’s your take on things?

Was the Hawaii B&B owner right in turning away Diane Cervelli and Taekeo Bufford back in 2007 based on their sexuality?

What do you think of the court’s decision?

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Sources:  Yahoo! News

College women urged to urinate, vomit, whistle to avoid sexual assault

university of colorado last resort sexual assault prevention
university of colorado last resort sexual assault prevention

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The University of Colorado Department of Public Safety had a list of 10 ‘last resort’ behaviors they recommended women turn to in order to evade an attacker during a rape.

This list, combined with statements from Colorado lawmaker Joe Salazar started a media firestorm. Salazar is in the process of trying to change gun laws in Colorado. In his controversial statements, he mentioned women turn to ‘rape whistles’ not guns in order to evade a rape incident.

College women reacted, especially since his suggestion directly impacted them. College campus throughout the United States have call boxes and rape whistles as a means of safety precautions for women.

Salazar’s comments coupled with the ‘last resort’ suggestions from the University of Colorado suggesting women urinate or say they have a disease outraged women. He stated:

 It’s why we have call boxes, it’s why we have safe zones, it’s why we have the whistles. Because you just don’t know who you’re gonna be shooting at,”

And you don’t know if you feel like you’re going to be raped, or if you feel like someone’s been following you around or if you feel like you’re in trouble when you may actually not be, that you pop out that gun and you pop … pop a round at somebody.”

Here is the complete list of suggestions from their department of public safety document titled “What To Do If You’re Attacked”, a list meant to help women prevent sexual assault:

1. Be realistic about your ability to protect yourself.

2. Your instinct may be to scream, go ahead!  It may startle your attacker and give you an opportunity to run away.

3. Kick off your shoes if you have time and can’t run in them.

4. Don’t take time to look back; just get away.

5. If your life is in danger, passive resistance may be your best defense.

6. Tell your attacker that you have a disease or are menstruating.

7. Vomiting or urinating may also convince the attacker to leave you alone.

8. Yelling, hitting or biting may give you a chance to escape, do it!

9. Understand that some actions on your part might lead to more harm.

10.  Remember, every emergency situation is different.  Only you can decide which action is most appropriate.

The list has since been removed by the the University of Colorado. Apologies were extended. In their statements, they mention the suggestions from the department of public safely were merely last resort and may have been misinterpreted in the social media world.

Salazar has also since gone on record, apologizing for his statements:

The words I said near the end of a 12-hour debate are not reflective of the point I was trying to make,”

I am a husband and father of two girls. I care deeply about their safety, and I would never question a woman’s ability to discern a threat. My larger point was about how more guns on campus don’t mean you’re more safe. I used a bad example.  Again, I’m sorry.”

What are your thoughts on the list of suggestions for avoiding a sexual assault? How does Colorado lawmaker Joe Salazar’s statements suggesting women use a rape whistle instead of turning to guns make you think of how women are expected to handle themselves in a violent attack?

Sources: ABC News, The Washington Times, USSC Public Safety Department

 

Femen women topless at Pope talk of gay adoption: “Homophobe shut up”

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femen topless women vatican protests the blazeFour women from the group Femen of the Ukraine, known as an LGBT and women’s rights group of activists went topless in St. Petersburg Square as Pope Benedict delivered a morning prayer.

Essays and speeches against same-sex marriage and gay adoption have been more and more common over the past year with developments in favor of equal marriage rights throughout the globe.

As the Pope spoke, the topless Femen women shouted:

“Homophobe Shut Up!”

They sported body paint on their backs and chests which stated:

“In gay we trust”

On the same day, an essay released by the Vatican, written by Adriano Pessina, director of bioethics at the Catholic University of the Sacred Heart openly speaks against both same-sex marriage and gay adoption:

“But no one believes that these situations should be created just because in some cases they don’t cause damage,” wrote

“The human is the masculine and the feminine … the monogamous family is the ideal place to learn the meaning of human relations and is the environment where the best form of growth is possible,”

The Femen group of women is responsible for topless protests dating back to 2010. Today, they were arrested and taken away by Vatican official.

Sources: USA Today, Reuters, Towerload

A protest against gay marriage is also expected to take place in France where the country gears up to vote on whether they want to legalize equal marriage rights for their gay and lesbian couples and families.

Claire McCaskill beats out GOP Todd Akin: Focus on women, economy key

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Sen. Claire McCaskill democrat beats todd akin getty images In a fight to the finish, Senator Claire McCaskill (Democrat), beat Senator Todd Akin (Republican) for a seat in the Missouri Senate on Election Day, Tuesday, November 6, 2012.

While some cite Akin’s controversial ‘legitimate rape’ comments as McCaskill’s angle in  defending her senate seat, others cite her record in areas such as improving the economy and focusing on women’s issues as key components in her victory on Election Day 2012.

In a complementary speech, a speaker from EMILY’s List, a women’s group, spoke:

2012 Election Day women’s issues decide Presidential race outcome

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An article released by ThinkProgress on Election Day, Tuesday, November 6, 2012, lists some of the major issues for women in the 2012 presidential elections.

In the months leading up to the 2012 Election Day, both presidential candidates, President Barrack Obama and Governor Mitt Romney discussed social issues of concern for them during their respective campaign trails. Which one better address issues relevant to women?

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